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12/25/01

Merry Christmas!

Everything is well in the Sanders' household. We are truly blessed with good jobs, a beautiful home, good health, presents under the tree, and good friends.

Jeanie and I just finished opening our gifts from each other. Jeanie got a copy of "Larissa's Bread Book" which is a combination novel/cookbook, CD's "Driving Rain" by Paul McCartney and The Beatles "One", two boxes of Cella chocolate covered cherries, and four rice bowls, two mugs, and a teacup and saucer in her new favorite pattern "Butterfly Meadow" by Lenox. I got an electric carving knife, "Shrek" on DVD, two boxes of Ghiradelli non-pariels, an electric toothbrush, lots of new M&M's collectables, a digital tire gauge, and of course, my new La-Z-Boy.

We spent Christmas Eve with Burnie and Dave at their annual Christmas Eve extravaganza. I bobo'd and thought that the party started at 5:00 rather than at 4:00, so Burnie had to send her daughter to fetch the ham that we had committed to bring. We ended up arriving an hour late, which was actually really good considering that we had been cleaning house all day and still had to bathe, dress, and drive over there at five-after-four when Burnie called to access the whereabouts of the ham.

Even though it's not that evident from the user's perspective, I have made a bunch of changes "behind the scenes" on the site. I have implemented cookies, so now visitors can identify themselves the first time they access the site. This allows me to track the number of return visits by user. I also enhanced the logging to capture more detailed browser information so I can get a better idea of which browers and their associated settings are being used by my visitors. The other value that the cookies are providing, is that they allow me to pass information from javascript to php. Javascript has a lot more built-in browser information functions than php does, but I use php to write the log data to mysql. You can not pass data directly from javascript to php, so I use the cookie as an intermediary. I like that method alot better than passing the information in the url.

If you haven't loaded AudioGalaxy, you should. If you have never listened to Beth Amsel, you should.

Well, we're off to do the grandparent Santa thing, then off to the Murphy's for their Christmas party.

We wish all of you Joy, Peace, and Love.



12/15/01

The saleslady told me that she thought the chair I had picked was too large for me... but noooo, to a man, the phrase "that is too large" does not compute. Well, as Jeanie often says "bigger is not always better" (thank goodness that she truly believes that :-)

So, after a week of trying to convince myself that the chair really is comfortable, I finally admit that the chair *is* too big. So, we pack it back in the truck, and take it back to north Raleigh to exchange it. The style I liked had a smaller version that was identical except for size, but unfortunately, in the intervening week, they have sold out of the smaller version in any of the colors that we were interested in, and they don't expect to get new stock until late in January. Fortunately, there was another chair that I also liked, that they do have in stock. It is $200 less than the first one! Even though she had bought the first chair for me, and even though it was my Christmas present, I don't get that $200... wonderful as she is, she still is a woman. <big grin>

We just happened to drive past Bahama Breeze on the way home, and in rare fit of spontaneity for me, I decide we should go on a date. So, we had a nice early dinner, and I finally got that Bahamarita I've been dying for. I hate to say it, but the Bahamaritas in Austin are much better. Oh well. After dinner, we decided to go to a movie. We saw "Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone" which we both thouroughy enjoyed. The effects were amazing, the characters looked just like I had imagined, and they were incredibly faithful to the book.



12/8/01

Jeanie and I went to the IBM employee computer sale this morning. The sale was slated to start at 9:00am, so we figured we'd get there early to get a good place in line... we were in line by 7:00am...and there were already 300 people in front of us! Most of the *really* good stuff was gone by the time we got inside, but we still got some killer deals. We didn't end up leaving the sale until noon, then headed up to north Raleigh to go to the La-Z-Boy store. We spent another two hours while I tried every chair in the store, before finally deciding on one.

I have to take a moment to point out just how wonderful my wife is... most guys, when they were to tell their wife that they were planning to go to a computer sale at 7:00am , would be told in no uncertain terms "you already have enough computer stuff" or "you spend too much time/money on those darn things as it is!" or at best "you'd better not wake me up that early on a Saturday!" My wife says "Oh cool, would you like some company while you stand in line?" Then, to top it off, after we've been at it for five hours, asks "are you too tired to go shopping for your chair?" This, by the way, from a women who has begged me for years to *let her* buy me a recliner. And, that's only a small part of the reason that I love her so much.

Well, the truck was packed to the gills with computer boxes, so we didn't have room for the chair. So, Jeanie says, "that's okay, I'll go back tomorrow to pick it up."

So, Sunday, Jeanie says, "well, I'm off to pick up the chair. I know you're tired, so I'll see you in a little while..."

I am a lucky man.



12/02/01


We're still both sick. This afternoon we watched "Angel Eyes" with Jennifer Lopez. Jeanie and I both enjoyed it. Yes, it was the kind of movie we like. I was pleasantly surprised at J-Lo's acting ability.


12/02/01

Jeanie and I are both sick. At first we though it might be a reaction to the flu shots we both got this week, but after talking with Kim (who was also sick), we now think that we all caught a bug from Tyler. Oh well, we still love him. I slept most of the day (Saturday) which is why I'm sitting here updating the site at 12:30AM.

We watched two movies this evening. "Cats and Dogs"and "Swordfish." Definitely opposite ends of the spectrum, but we enjoyed both. Both of the DVD's had lots of extras, both on the DVD player, and for the computer, and both web sites are very cool.

I took yesterday (well, Friday technically) off. I did some re-reseeding of the lawn where the seed had not germinated, but most of the day was spent doing work stuff. I did manage to make enough time to cook dinner for both of us, and I truly believe that crock-pots are wonderful things.

Open enrollment is over, so Jeanie is back to working normal hours which is really nice for both of us.

Last Friday, Jeanie and I drove to Savanah to visit Jimmy and Kim and our grand-nephew Tyler. As usual, we had a wonderful time. An extra treat was getting to see Jeanie's parents who had driven over for the day. Tyler is a great baby and is absolutely adorable. We took lots of video and still pictures. We listened to "Harry Potter and the Socerer's Stone" on the drive down and back. It really was quite charming, and I now understand why it is so popular.

The one sad note during our trip was learning of the passing of Jeanie's father's brother Buddy as a result of lung cancer. We were unable to attend the memorial or funeral services, but our thoughts and prayers go out to all of our family.

Thanksgiving was lovely. Jeanie and I picked up Mom and drove up to southern Virginia to eat Thanksgiving dinner with the Murphys. Shawn and Tammy (and their significant others) were there, and we had a wonderful time.

Site: changed main page, added humor page, added wisdom.


11/22/01

Happy Thanksgiving!

I have added a new TV show to my list of favorites: 24, on Fox. It has a very different look and feel, and it plays out more like a book than a standard one hour weekly TV show. And to boot, the web site is really cool.


11/19/01

Jeanie got sick Saturday night. She spent most of Sunday sleeping, so Sunday was a quiet day.

On Saturday, I tilled up about 1/2 of the front yard. The 1/2 closest to the driveway. Then, I scattered grass seed, and placed watering heads along the driveway. I used fifteen foot sections of garden hose to connect the heads to each other which seems to be just about the right distance apart. I also got a new watering timer/control that is much more sophisticated than the one I use for the other side of the driveway. This one allows up to six watering programs, each of which can be programmed with start and stop times as well as which days to water on. Jeanie did some Christmas shopping, and wrapped presents in the evening.

I finally got to donate blood again on Friday. It has been a real struggle. I went on Monday night with David Neter, but my blood pressure and pulse rate were too high for me to donate. I called the doctor on Tuesday, and he had me come in so they could do some tests. He decided to switch me from Aceon (an ACE inhibitor) to Tenormin (a beta blocker) and the Tenormin seems to be working better, at least well enough for me to be able to donate. So, I was finally able to get my "Three Gallon" pin. Yea! After donating, I met a bunch of folks from work at the Fox & Hound for a going away party for David Cox, then we wandered over to Hot Shots for a few games of pool. It was a pleasant afternoon.

I spent the week before last (starting on Tuesday) in Austin. The first two days were spent in meetings, and the last two were spent in a Managing@IBM class with my peer managers and my Manager. The class was quite good. The trick is going to be maintaining a focus on the things we discussed in class amid everything else that needs to be done at work. I was pleasantly surprised that it really isn't that much more of a hassle to fly. Even though I had to show my id a few more times, and decided to check my suitcase so I could have my nail clipper while in Austin, overall, I'd say at most it took an extra half-hour each way. For some reason, I did find the National Guardsmen wearing camo's and carrying loaded M-16's somewhat unsettling.

I broke down and bought a new PDA. Office Depot lowered the price on the HP Jornada 525 to $199, and I had a $30 off coupon, so it seemed like too good a deal to pass up. Good thing I did... my Compaq Aero 1520 died sometime during my trip. I knew it was nearing the end of its life, which I guess was part of the motivation for buying the HP. Overall, I'm quite happy with the HP. It is a little thicker than the Aero, and the screen size is a little smaller, but it is a color screen, and since it is a PocketPC as opposed to a WindowsCE machine, it has a lot of additional software available for it. All of my data transferred seamlessly, so the transition process has been relatively painless. Of course, Microsoft has now released PocketPC 2002, which I can not upgrade the 525 to, so I am still one OS behind, but, from what I've read so far, I don't think it will be a big loss. So far, my two biggest complaints are that HP didn't design a stylus holder into the PDA, so it must be stored in the case which is a little bit of a hassle, and Microsoft modified the Jot handwriting engine a little bit, and removed the editing (cut/copy/paste/...) gestures. The editing features are still available via a menu, so it's only a little hassle. Microsoft also changed the user interface, and the default makes opening and closing programs ungainly, but fortunately, a free download, GigaBar, solved the UI deficiencies.



11/04/01

Robby and I finished the fence earlier this week. It came out very nicely, if I do say so myself. Diego seems quite happy with it, and it is much nicer for Jeanie and me to be able to let Diego out the service door of the garage and not worry about Diego running off or getting attacked by a large dog.

Dave Simpson is doing pretty well. He has lost a fair amount of weight since his ordeal started, but his weight is stabilized, his feeding tube was removed last week, and he is making slow, but steady progress towards a full recovery.

Diego celebrated his first birthday last month.

We spent the weekend before last with Jimmy and Kim at their lakeside estate in SC. We drove down Friday night after work, and then went to Myrtle Beach for the day on Saturday. As always, we had a great time.

I had a "thing" removed from my face last week. Most likely it was a small basal cell carcinoma. The doctor said he got all of it, and that it was nothing to worry about. We also decided it was time to do something about my blood pressure which had risen to 146/104, so, I am now taking Aceon, which seems to have gotten my BP back under control, and has had no unpleasant side effects. Better living through chemistry...

The visit to the doctor was triggered by continued problems with my jaw. The doctor prescribed a muscle relaxant which has had the double benefit of relaxing the spasms in my jaw muscles, and helping me sleep better. More better living through chemistry...

My work continues to be horribly stressful. I feel more stressed by my job than at any other time that I can remember in my career. One little ray of sunshine has been that my manager has done almost a 180 degree turn-around. Lately, he has actually been polite, supportive, and complimentary. I'm not sure if this is because he is finally realizing that I am not the "slacker" that some of my peers in Austin would have him believe me to be, or if he realized that I had accumulated a significant amount of documentation that would demonstrate that I was not the one who had not been doing his job... (infer what you'd like...). But, regardless of why, at least that one aspect of my job is much better. Unfortunately, the aftermath of the audit is still creating a lot of extra work and stress on the team, and, to add insult to injury, we have been informed that we will now be undergoing a security review in RTP in December. Arggg!

Jeanie is doing well. She is working quite a few evenings. Since the Help Desk is "open" 8-8, and many of the staffers have young children, Jeanie volunteered to work many of the 11-8 shifts so that the working mothers could work the earlier shifts and get home at a reasonable hour.

I had a lovely dinner with David Neter last week. David looks better than I can ever remember seeing him look. He is still on sabbatical, but tells me that he is revving up to find his next job. We went to the Five Star restaurant in downtown Raleigh. Their menu of "unique" Chinese dishes was a nice change of pace, and both the appetizers and entrees that we ordered (scallion pancakes, eggplant, beef and cabbage, and five star chicken) were delicious. Highly recommended.

Mom is doing fine. The kids are doing fine.

Bottom line: we both still have jobs, our closest love ones are reasonably happy and healthy. Everyone we love has enough food to eat, clothes on their back, and a roof over their head. When I take even a little step back, it is clear that Jeanie and I are truly blessed. Happy Friendship Week.


10/02/01


Dave Simpson's surgery went well. The tumor was smaller than expected, and was fully contained within his esophogus. He's been in a lot of pain, and has been running a fairly high temperature, but, given the circumstances, things are much better than they could have been. Burnie is hanging in there, which is about all one could hope for at the moment...

I was sick all weekend. I think the stress has finally gotten to me. I've had a range of symptoms, headaches, ear aches, digestive opportunities, not being able to chew because my jaw won't fully shut due to an extreme flair-up of my TMJ. I was out of work yesterday, and I'm not sure if I'm going to feel well enough to go in today. The most challenging thing is that I have no energy. Just sitting and working for an hour or two exhausts me.

Jeanie is doing fine. She's being a real trooper, and just rolling with the punches.

Robby has started building a fence on the side of our house so that Diego will have a fenced in yard to play in. Dave and Peggy next door were nice enough to let us tie into their fence, so all Robby will have to build is the front and back portions of fence. Dave and Peggy had enough pickets left over from their fence that we will be able to use their left-overs, so the fences will blend nicely. Robby has the posts all dug and set. Next weekend he'll start putting in the pickets.

Robby also cleaned our gutters and installed gutter guard, so hopefully we wont have the gutter spill-over issues that we've had in the past.

It is so nice that Robby is doing all of this for us.

We added another member to our fish family. We now have a plecostomus keeping Mrs. Bubbles company, and keeping the "glass" algae-free. I've named him Moe.


09/16/01

We're back from our trip to Hickory, NC. It was good getting to see Jeanie's relatives, although we would have preferred that it were under happier circumstances.

This week's events remind me of one of my personal philosophies...

evil is inherently stronger than good...
much stronger...
one on one, evil will always triumph
the only thing that keeps evil in check is that there are *so* many more *good* people than there are *evil* people, that ultimately,good triumphs through sheer numbers

This week, we lost a lot of *good* people, but, thank goodness, the majority of the people on this planet are good. We just need to stay together, and to resist the temptations and misdirections of evil.

Lately, I have heard a number of comments that are along the lines of "we just need to wipe (pick your country) off of the map. Yes, some people in some of these countries do condone/harbor/support/sponsor terrorism. But, the majority of the people in these countries are good people, innocent people, just like the people who died this week. In fact, many of them are *victims* of evil themselves. One of evil's tools has always been to misdirect our focus, and to hide behind the innocent. I pray that we are strong enough to see through this,and to truly target the evil.


09/14/01

Gee, where do you even start after the last week?

We're both still numb and extremely sad. Just getting up in the morning and going to work is a challenge.

As far as we can tell, none of our immediate family was directly impacted by the events on Tuesday.

On Wednesday we learned that Jamie's high school boyfriend and her first "true love," Karleton Fyfe, was among the passengers on American Flight 11. Karleton was a really sweet, really smart boy. Jeanie had become very close to Karleton's mom Barbara while Jamie and he were dating. Jeanie has been so sad thinking about Karleton, the wife and baby that are left behind, and Karleton's parents.

Many of you have heard me tell the story of the boy who came to pick Jamie up on her first non-group date, on the day that the boy got his full driver's license, only to have it start snowing just as he pulled into our driveway. We were concerned about them going off, in the snow, with a brand new driver's license. Then the boy's mom called expressing her concern as well. So, we decided to have the boy spend the night at our house. As we all headed off to bed, Jamie in her bedroom, us in ours, and the boy on the living room sofa bed, I told the boy - only half in jest - "you'd better stay in your bed, I sleep with a gun under my pillow." Knowing how hormones can override even a smart boy's good sense, I couldn't sleep, and got up every hour to make sure that he was still where he was supposed to be. He slept like a rock the entire night, never even stirring.

That boy, was Karleton.

On Thursday, Jeanie learned that her Aunt Sue had died. This was sudden, and totally unexpected. We still don't know what the cause of death was, but Jeanie at least had some small comfort in knowing that Aunt Sue had passed peacefully in her sleep. Poor Uncle Howard; he lost his only son less than a year ago in an accident, and now he's lost his wife.

Click here to send an e-mail to Jeanie, or here to send an e-sympathy card to jeanie@witsdom.com.


09/08/01 at a more reasonable hour

Jeanie and I watched Duets this morning and really enjoyed it. The review I linked comes closest to "getting it" as far as I'm concerned. I saw a number of other reviews that were less flattering, but we really enjoyed it. Guess it just goes to show...


09/08/01

It's 3:30am, and I can't sleep.

Wow it's been a tough six weeks. For all practical purposes, I spent the entire month of August in Austin. I did get to come home on the weekends, although I was so tired and stressed that pretty much all I did on the weekends was sleep.

I didn't even get to spend Jeanie's birthday with her. First time in twenty years.

The reason I had to spend so much time in Austin was that we received an IT security audit, and there were hoursof meetings, and tons of documentation that had to be generated for the auditors. It was not a fun experience, and I hope I don't have to go through another one any time soon. Because there was so much time that had to be devoted to the audit, even though I was in Austin for so long, I really didn't get to spend any quality time with the team.

I've been having a tremendous amount of trouble with my new manager. Unfortunately, I just don't like his style, nor do I respect the way he chooses to conduct himself. I also do not feel that he treats me with respect or professionalism. This makes if very difficult for me to get along with him, much less work for him. I totally "lost it" with him on the phone of Thursday. Probably not the brightest career move, but I can only take so much, and I promised myself that I would never again comprimise my principles or ethics for a job.

Oh well, at the moment, I'm just greatful that Jeanie and I still have jobs. Just last week, two more friends got laid off from one of my former employers.

Diego is doing well. He is really smart, and has learned a number of tricks. He's also pretty well trained/behaved, but there are a couple of rough edges that still need some work. When Jamie was in town, Jeanie and Jamie went to the Orange County Animal Protection Society annual auction. Jeanie bid on, and won, three sessions with a professional dog trainer. Today was our first session. Barbara seems very nice, and very knowledgeable. The most challenging part is probably going to be for Jeanie and I do be disciplined and consistent enough to help Diego polish up a few things here and there.

Jeanie is doing well. She is enjoying the training she is receiving in preparation for her temporary assignment, and in some ways is looking forward to the work she will be doing over the next few months.

The kids are doing fine, the pets are doing fine, the parents are doing okay, although I am worried about Mom's memory and Mama's back.


07/20/01

Work has been an absolute bear. I have been in Austin for the last two weeks. I've been working really long hours, and work has been extremely stressful.

Jamie came to visit for a few weeks which was really great. I didn't get to spend much time with her since I was away so much, but Jeanie got to spend plenty of time with her which was really nice.

Jeanie starts a new assignment at work tomorrow. She will be on temporary assignment in the IBM benefits center. She will be taking phone calls during open enrollment through the end of the year. Not necessarily her first choice, but much better than getting laid off. She will be working out of a different location, in a cube farm, but at least it is a little closer to home...

We got some really upsetting news from our friends Burnie and Dave. In Burnie's words:

Dave has been diagnosed with esophageal cancer. However, the CT scan revealed that the cancer does not appear to have spread anywhere else in  his body.  The tumor in the esophagus is moderate in size, but doctors are very optimistic that he can beat this thing.

Today was spent  preparing and planning for an aggressive treatment over the next four months.  Dave will start radiation and chemotherapy next Monday.  Normally, patients are admitted to the hospital for a four day stay for chemo, however the doctors feel that Dave is an excellent candidate for outpatient chemo, so he will have a PIC line (a fancy form of IV) and a portable dosing pump to administer his 96 hour continuous dosage. Radiation treatment will continue daily for 5 weeks, which is a 10-30 minute ordeal every morning at the hospital. He will end the 5 weeks of treatment with another 96 hours of outpatient chemotherapy.  He should be able to work and keep up his normal activities(including his 3 times a week swimming ritual) over the entire 5 week course of treatment, limited only by his personal intolerance to possible side effects such as nausea or fatigue from the medications.

He may suffer some hair loss, however we have been told that this particular strain of medication does not always result in hair loss, it depends on the individual.  We figure since Dave has already lost most of his hair anyway, this will not have a significant emotional impact, but we plan on buying him some fun hats just in case.

After the five weeks of radiation and chemo, he will have 3 weeks of rest and relaxation, then will be admitted for surgery around the 1st of October to remove the lower portion of the esophagus along with the tumor.  He will stay in the hospital 8-12 days, then come home for an extended recovery period (Dave insists he will be back at work the day he is released......yeah, right!).  

Statistically, he has about an 80 - 90% chance of full recovery and a cancer free life.  Your continued prayers and thoughts are welcomed and needed.

Dave's attitude is completely positive and upbeat.  He plans to win!   He is able to talk about it, so phone calls are definitely OK!

I'm usually not the gushy type, but this was hanging in the oncology clinic today and it seemed to offer some relief:

WHAT CANCER CANNOT DO
Cancer is so limited.
It cannot criple love,
It cannot shatter hope,
It cannot corrode faith,
It cannot destroy peace,
It cannot kill friendship,
It cannot suppress memories,
It cannot silence courage,
It cannot invade the soul,
It cannot steal eternal life,
It cannot conquer the spirit.

Thanks to all who said a prayer for him.  So far, so good.  One day at a time.

Mom is doing okay, but her memory is really starting to fail her. She is also having more trouble getting around. It saddens me to see her decline. But, she seems to be happy, which is a blessing.

Really puts things into perspective, doesn't it? All of a sudden, no matter how stressful or frustrating work or life's little annoyances are, they are just a drop in the bucket. We are so fortunate to both have a job, our health, and friends and family who love us.


07-01-01


From the "Ain't computers fun" department... I had some files that I wanted to give to my friend (let's call him Chuck). Chuck had some files that he wanted to give me. A mutual friend (let's call him Al) was going to visit Chuck. The total size of the files was quite large, so we decided that the easiest thing to do was do copy the files to a spare hard drive, and just let Al take the hard drive to Chuck. Chuck could throw the drive in his system, then Chuck could copy the files onto his system, and copy the files from his system onto the hard drive and send it back with Al. Good plan, eh? Well, Al takes the drive to Chuck. By the way, it's a large IDE drive formatted as NTFS. Well, seems Chuck has chucked all of his PC's - Chuck is a Mac freak, but otherwise is mostly okay - and since the drive was IDE NTFS, Chuck couldn't read it. Chuck and Al banged their heads against the wall, borrowed a pc from another friend, never could get the files. So, Chuck says, how 'bout I format the drive as a Mac drive, and put my files on it? Well, I have another friend (let's call him Dan) that is a closet Mac dude, so I say "sure." Al brings the drive to me, I give it to Dan, Dan looks at it and says "oh, it's IDE - I've only got SCSI." "Great" I say. Dan is a Linux freak, so I ask Dan if there are any Linux utilities that can read a Mac formatted hard drive. "Sure," Dan says. So, Dan builds a Linux box for us to play with, throws the drive in, and tries to read it. Note, I said "tries..." Turns out, the Mac drive is formatted HFS+ (or some say HFS Extended). All of the Linux Mac reading utilities only play with HFS drives. Seems like we're at a dead end; we decided to sleep on the challenge. Next day, as we're discussing our options, Dan wonders aloud, "gee, I wonder if there are any windoz (remember, he is a Linux freak) utilities that would fit the bill. I jump on Google, and sure enough, find MacDrive 2000 which looks like a contended, and, there is a fully functional, five day eval available for download. So, download I do. Now, we need a Windows 2000 "play" box. Neither Dan nor I have one, so we ask (let's call him Will) if he has a box we can use. Sure enough, Will does, so we load the drive in the box, install MacDrive, and yes!, it works. So, we throw yet another drive into Will's box, format this new drive as FAT32, and happily copy the files from the Mac drive to the PC drive. Of course, Chuck never did get his files. Maybe I'll send them to him via the Internet. ;-)

And, what was the point of this protracted story you might ask? Well, it should be obvious. Computers have simplified our lives - right?

Jeanie and I indulged in one of our movie marathon weekends. We took Mom to see "Evolution" in the theater on Friday night. It was quite amusing. On Saturday, we rented and watched "Proof of Life" and "Save The Last Dance,"both of which were also enjoyable.

page: created pre-2001 what's new archive. Added links.


06-23-01

Let your computer join in the fight against cancer by downloading and running the free United Devices program which can be found at http://www.chem.ox.ac.uk/curecancer.html.

06/10/01

Phew! I finally got mysql and php working with Apache! What a challenge! I feel like I've done more compiling in the last week or two than I did in my entire programming career.

Yesterday, Jeanie and I took Mom to see Moulin Rouge. Jeanie enjoyed it, I thought it was okay.

Jeanie is fine. Mom is fine, although her memory get a little worse every day - at least she's happy, healthy, and well cared for. Diego is doing fine. He's been mostly good about not tearing stuff up, and he really does bring Jeanie and I great joy. Now if only we could teach him to be more social with other dogs!

site: revamped links page.


06/06/01

Oh, I love computers, I love Linux. Maybe if I keep telling myself this, I'll believe it!

I decided to apply all of the updates to 6.2 to "lock down" my system. Decided to use rpms. Didn't know kernel rpms make bad things happen. Killed my system. Had to reload from scratch. Yuck! Oh well, "a learning experience..."

Yipee! My domain is active. You can now visit me at www.witsdom.com!


06/05/01

I'm making progress. I got my new domain registered in DNS for free at ZoneEdit and in a few days, I should have my "hosted at home" website open for visitors.

Today at lunch, I was saying that I wished there was a way to use one keyboard and mouse to contol two computers simultaneously. That way when I was working at home, I could have my monitor displaying stuff from my home computer and the laptop screen displaying the work stuff simultaneously, and slide back and forth like if I was using a dual-headed card with two monitors. Well, low and behold, Martel says "I have a friend who does just that using VNC. Sure enough, after lunch, Martel demonstrates on two of his systems in his office. He used the standard VNC server on the Windows workstation, and x2vnc on the Linux box. Just too cool; I had to have it, so, I downloaded the source, and then compiled it from the author's web site. Copied it to /usr/bin so I wouldn't have to hunt for it, and presto-chango, it works for me at home! Yipee!


06/02/01

I'm getting adventureous. I built a new pc at home from "parts." It has an ATX motherboard with an AMD K6-2 475 and 256MB of RAM. A 12GB hard drive, CD, and floppy. I got a really nice, very affordable case from Intrex that is nice and quiet. I decided I wanted to run Linux on it, so that's what I'm running.

I racked my brain trying to come up with a good domain name, as I plan to move my web site to this new machine. After lots of trial and error (it's amazing how many domains are registered!) I finally came up with one that wasn't taken: witsdom.com. So, my new web site will be at www.witsdom.com. I'm still thinking about whether or not I'll move my mail. For the time being, I'm leaving my mail where it is.


05/28/01

We just got back from visiting Jeanie's folks in Milan. We had a wonderful visit. We left around noon on Friday, and arrived around 10:00pm. On Saturday, we had a relaxing morning, a delicious lunch made by Momma (bar-b-que country style ribs, baked vidalia onions, home made potato salad, and apricot-lemon supreme cake), then we drove in to Macon, did a little shopping, and then had a nice fish dinner.

On Sunday, Daddy's birthday, Jeanie and I went to worship service, and had another delicious lunch, then Daddy, Jeanie and I went to the Museum Of Aviation, Flight And Technology Center, at Robbins AFB. We had a great visit, made all the more interesting by Daddy's stories about the aircraft that he flew that were on display. These included the Sikorsky H-19D "Chickasaw", the Sikorsky HH-34J "Choctaw", and the Bell UH-1 (Huey) "Iroquis" A,B,C, and H models. The only aircraft that Daddy flew that wasn't on display was the Hiller H-23 "Raven." Among the other highlights of the day was seeing their SR-71 "Blackbird", my all-time favorite aircraft.

Today, we left around 10:00am, and had a nice uneventful drive home.


Last weekend, we drove to Hickory, to attend Jeanie's Aunt Margie and Uncle Bill's fiftieth wedding anniversary, and to visit some of Jeanie's other relatives.

Once upon a time, I bought something from Cyberrebate.com. Their business model seemed a little funky, and "too good to be true." Well, aparently it was. Even though I got my rebate check eventually, lot's of folks aparently didn't, and now they've closed their doors.

site: added good stuff, widsom.

05/11/01

Yikes! It's been a while. Well, I sure haven't been overwhelmed with e-mail complaining about the lack of updates...sometimes I think I'm the only person who ever visits this site.

Speaking of sites, check out the Southern Poverty Law Center's new Tolerance web site, it's very interesting.

I got tired of Mr. Bubbles living all by himself in his little vase, so... I bought him the junior version of the tank I have at work (2 gallons) and a wife. We call her... Mrs. Bubbles. They've been flirting quite a bit, and maybe we'll have lots of little Bubbles in a while.

All three of the otocincluses I have bought died. I went to the fish store to buy more, and ended up talking with a very knowledgeable sales person who told me that without driftwood in the tank, they will die - period. I knew that their teeth grew constantly, and that without intervention, they would grow so long that the fish could no longer eat. I had assumed that as long as they had a rock to gnaw on, that would address the need. The sales person informed me that it's not that they wear down the teeth, they need to "lose" them so new ones can take their place. The way this happens is that when they bite the drift wood, the old teeth embed in the wood, and then when the fish pulls its mouth away, the old teeth get left in the wood. Well it's been over a week, and all three new fish seem to be doing fine.

The big news since last time, and the reason it's been so long, is that my job underwent a major transformation on April 6. No, I haven't left IBM. On April 6, a reorganization of the IT department supporting Tivoli was announced. Rather than having the organization aligned along regional boundaries, the organization is now aligned along functional lines. All of lab and host support report to one second line manager, and all of production operations report to another second line. Each functional area within operations (NT, Backup, Unix, etc.) report to a specific first line manager. Thus my job went from managing Notes, NT, Unix, backup, printing, and the data center in the Eastern Region; to managing all Unix operations in North America. The biggest impact on me personally is that the majority of the people I manage, and my manager, work in Austin, Texas. I now manage a total of twelve Unix administrators; three in RTP, one in Santa Cruz California, and eight in Austin Texas. Because of this change, and I travelling for a few days every other week to Austin. For the record, I now am part of the IBM Software Group Global eBusiness Transformation group, supporting Unix operations for Tivoli Systems. My title is Manager, Unix Services Team, IBM SWG GeT.

There are a lot of challenges, lots of work to be done, and I'm working a lot of hours, but I am really enjoying this new role.

Andrew's mom, Terry, invited Jeanie and I to a Passover seder at her house with Andrew, Laura, and a couple of Terry's friends. It was Jeanie and Laura's first seder, and the second seder I had every been to - the first one having been over thirty years ago. The food was absolutely delicious, and the company was delightful. The ceremonial part of the dinner was interesting. Terry had gotten a modified Haggadah, which was long enough to cover the high points, but short enough to keep things from dragging on forever.

Jeanie and I spent Easter weekend with Jimmy and Kim at their lakeside retreat. As usual, they were the consummate hosts, and we had a grand time.

We inherited another male betta. One of the guys at work needed to find a good home for their betta, and I volunteered. Jeanie wasn't thrilled with the new addition, so we haven't named him yet - in case she decides that two male bettas is one too many. He was kind of in rough shape when we got him, but he's slowly getting better. We'll just have to wait to see what his ultimate fate is...

In other news, Jeanie and Diego spent ten days in San Francisco visiting Jamie and Buddy. They all really enjoyed spending time together. Jeanie said she was sad to have to leave Jamie, but was glad to get home to me (yeah, right). I went to Austin for three days while Jeanie was away, so it wasn't as lonely for me as it would have been had I not travelled.


04/01/01

I found out on Monday that CTNC had a significant layoff. Seventeen people were affected, including a number of people I had worked with for many years, and for whom I care about. It has been so sad for me to see how BCBSSC has just mis-managed this company I put so much of myself into right into the ground. If there is any silver lining in all of this, maybe it will be that a number of people I consider friends, both displaced, and still at CTNC, will finally get the push they need to find a better place to work, and a better company to work for...

Fortunately, Aristotle's ick appears to be clearing up. Oto, Nic, and Gus seem to have adjusted to thier new homes. Diego's incision is just about healed, and he seems to be doing fine.

One of the highlights of my week was volunteering Friday night at WUNC-FM radio. Jeanie and I spent Friday evening answering phones for WUNC's spring fund raiser. It was very different than our experience at WUNC-TV. The area we sat in was much smaller, with many fewer volunteers. But, it was much more intimate. Instead of just answering the phones during the breaks, we stayed in the "phone room" for our entire shift. The staff, and the volunteers, were really cool, and we had a blast.

We spent Saturday afternoon with the Murphys. We met Bob and Wendy at the State Fairgrounds to go to the gem and mineral show in the Kerr-Scott building. Bob found a really nice ring for his birthday, and Jeanie and I found another Bob Timberlake print for the house. We went to see Miss Congeniality at the buck-fifty theater on Blue Ridge - Bob and Wendy hadn't seen it and really wanted to go to a movie, and Jeanie and I didn't mind seeing it again.



03/25/01

I spent the better part of today working on the trellis for the grape vines under the deck. It seems like it should have only taken an hour, but it took lots more. Part of what took so long was getting the vines disentangled from the supports they had been growing on, and then getting them disentangled from themselves and each other. I also had to run to the store to get more hardware (washers, links, etc.), and there were breaks for lunch and whatever. So, maybe actual work time wasn't that much over an hour after all. Oh well, I think it looks nice, and is sturdy, so I'm happy with it.

Yesterday was a nice day. The weather was perfect. John and Steve, our neighbors on the other side of the cul-de-sac had a garage sale, so Jeanie and I walked over more to say "Hi" - and "bye" as they're moving next week. Most of the other neighbors in the cul-de-sac were in their yards, so we spent an hour or so chit-chatting.

I've mentioned A.G. Russell before, but for a couple of reasons, I'll mention them again. In their last catalog, there were a couple of knives that looking interesting, that seemed reasonably priced. So, I hopped on the net and went to their web site to place the order. Upon bringing up the first item, I was initially angered to see that there was a correction in big red letters, saying the price that had been printed in the catalog was wrong, and that it was really $35 higher. I said initially angered, because, upon reading down a little further, I saw that they would be honoring the printed price until their next catalog was mailed. That's integrity! Well, I actually placed the order a few days ago, but I received my order today, so this seemed like a good place to talk about this. If you're interested, I absolutely love (in particular) one of the knives I ordered, the Timberline Open Assisted Knife. As far as I'm concerned, it may be the perfect pocket knife for me to carry when I'm wearing jeans or casual slacks... not too big, not too small (4" closed), razor sharp combination blade, great handle feel and proportions with no pointy parts to dig in my thigh, and a most amazing opening action.

Last night, we had my Mom and Robby and his family over the celebrate Robby's birthday. Jeanie made stuffed pork loin which was wonderful. It was a lovely evening.



03/24/01

One of my fish at work (Aristotle - the "gold" one) got (s)ick. I bought some medicine, so hopefully he'll start feeling better soon. We also added to our pet family: three Otocinclus. Living with Mr. Bubbles here at home is Otto, and at work, joining Socrates and Aristotle are Nic and Gus. In the past, I've tried to minimize the growth of algae in our tanks, but as these little guys are algae eating machines, I may have to encourage some algae growth just to keep the little suckers (sorry, couldn't resist) fed.

You may have noticed that unless I actually know the sex of a pet, we assume it to be male, or at least give it a male name. Speaking of males, Diego was de-he'd this week. I know that it was the responsible thing to do, and that, much as we love him, Diego is not a prize example of the breed: severe under-bite, too big - six pounds is the maximum for the standard and Diego will end up about 6.5 pounds. We've had a number of female pets that we've had spayed, and I didn't have a major problem. But, this has really bothered me. Gee, think it has something to do with the fact that Diego is a boy? We've decided that he is still more of a "he" than a "she," so we'll still be referring to him in the male context. Anyway, he came through the procedure just fine, and is already back to 100%.

I found some really cool new web sites, searchenginewatch which is a good reference to most of the web search engines currently in use, and MilePoint which provides an alternative way to use your frequent flier miles. In addition, just for signing up, they'll give you a free one year magazine subscription. I also signed up as a MagazineOutlet.com affiliate (see the link on the main page). Another good source for magazines is Best Deal Magazines. They have a list of 400 magazines you can get for $2.95 each (annual subscription) - click on the banner add ($1500 gift, ...) on the page to get the full list. If you're into online shopping, check out Got Apex and DealWalk. Both sites have good listings of current deals, as well as coupon codes you can use online for discounts. I've heard that at some stores, you can actually use the online coupon code at the brick and mortar store - but you might have to be assertive...



03/18/00

Jeanie and I have had a fun week. On Monday, we participated in the WUNC Festival 2001 IBM Night, answering phones and taking pledges for our local public TV station. We arrived around 6:00pm, received about forty-five minutes of training, and then headed off for the studio. The station and staff were really nice to us. When a show is airing, the volunteers don't take calls, so other than being a long night for us - we didn't leave the station until 11:30pm, we didn't work too hard. It was a fairly slow night as far as calls were concerned, so we were a little disappointed that we didn't raise more money. When we weren't taking calls, there was a nice break room with plenty of food and drink for us. We also got a really good demonstration of digital broadcast television, as well as a detailed explanation of the advantages it provides. The highlight of the evening came as we walked out of the station. The entire staff lined the hall that we walked down and applauded as we left - very cool.

Yesterday was Bob's fiftieth birthday, so we drove to Clarksville to spend the afternoon and evening with Bob and Wendy. I spent most of the afternoon working on Shawn and Tara's PC. The dial-up networking was hosed, and they couldn't access the web. Getting things straightened out was quite a challenge. I had to dig through .htm files on their ISP's installation CD to figure out the correct network settings, as the install program kept failing. I also had to download a fresh version of I.E. 5.5, which took a while at 26K, because the IE installation had some corruption which prevented a clean uninstall / reinstall.

We then went to Chase City to watch the annual talent show that their line dance group sponsors, and in which they perform. Wendy had been sick all week, so was not up to performing, but Bob, Lise, and Dick stomped, scooted, and shuffled. Bob definitely got the prize for coolest boots - thanks to his timely birthday present. So of the people who performed were incredibly talented, including a thirteen year old dancer who has appeared on "Showtime At The Apollo," a country singing trio, and a hillbilly comedian who had us in stitches.

We spent the night with Bob and Wendy. We went to Winston's Grille for brunch with the Best of Broadway (now Broadway in the South) gang, prior to attending a performance of The Scarlet Pimpernel , which I thoroughly enjoyed. I felt it was by far the best play we have seen so far, in both years of the series.


03/11/01


Okay. X-10 just earned my undying loyalty. Below, you'll see that I finally got around to installing the wireless audio sender. When I ordered it, I received a $30 voucher via e-mail. I never got around to clicking on the link to look at the terms and conditions of the voucher. If I had, I would have seen that the voucher was only good for thirty days. But, since I didn't look, I didn't realize it until I decided to order some stuff tonight. Then, read, fine print, arrrggg! Just for grins, I decided to call X-10 and see if I could give them a sad song and convince them to let me use the voucher. I had my best sad song ready, but never had to use it. The sales rep on the telephone was friendly and knowledgeable, and never even twitched when I mentioned the voucher. Wow!

I downloaded a new little utility this weekend, MBM - Motherboard Monitor. Cool little program. The feature I was most interested in was the temperature monitoring. You can set it so that if the motherboard temperature exceeds a certain value, the program will do anything from sound an alarm, to shut the system down. Very nice when your CPU sits inside a compartment in the desk!

Why you might ask, does the CPU sit inside a compartment in the desk. Well, in addition to "because there is a place in the desk for a CPU," it is because the computer is very noisy. It makes this horrid whining sound. Well, I got motivated this weekend and decided to fix the problem. At first I thought that the fan was just a noisy fan, so I went out and bought a nice quiet ball bearing fan. The fan sits inside a plastic shroud, that ducts air from outside the case, directly onto the CPU heat sink. After a little discovery, I was able to figure out how to remove the shroud from the case, and how to remove the fan from the shroud. Installed the new fan and... just as noisy, and I get a warning on boot that the fan has failed! Well, it hasn't really failed, it's fanning away, but for some reason the motherboard/bios doesn't realize this. Little does it matter since it's still whining. Well, to make a long story not quite as long as it could be, it seems that the design of the shroud allows it to double as a trumpet. Not only does it do a nice job of directing the flow of air from outside the case to the CPU, but it does a great job of amplifying the fan noise and directing it out of the case...arrrrggg!

Jeanie and I watched "Dr. T and the Women" this afternoon. What a great female cast. What a bad movie!

Jeanie and I watched "Meet The Parents" last night on video. There was one scene that was hilarious, but other than that, it was dumb.

Jeanie has started sleeping better at night. Why you ask? Because the volume of my snoring has decreased from a roar, to a gentle purr. Why you ask? Snoreless! Pasha you say? Well, in an unintentional test, one night I fell asleep without my three squirts. Next day, a sleepy Jeanie asks "Did you forget your Snoreless? "Why yes, my dear," I respond, "did you notice a difference?" I ask. "YES!!!!" was my sweetie's response.

Last weekend, we had Martha Stewart night at our house with Burnie, Dave, Roxanne, and Mike. It was a lovely evening, and hopefully everyone enjoyed it as much as Jeanie and I did.

The one disappointment on our Martha Stewart night is that I found out that my new DVD-CD player can not play CD-R's - after burning 8 CD's with various combinations of software, settings, etc. I didn't realize that you had to have a dual-laser model to be able to read CD-R's. Oh well, it did motivate me to finally hook up the X-10 audio/video sender / receiver to the computer and stereo, so I can now play MP3's on the stereo from the computer.

I finally got my check from CybeRebate. It's an okay deal I guess, but I don't think it's worth the hassle and time value of the money. One "miss" because of error or forgetfulness, and even many "free" purchases would turn into a losing proposition.

Bill Messenger and I got together to swap a pint at the Cary Red Cross Blood Center. Bill got his three gallon pin. I'll get mine next donation. It really is nice to get to see him every now and then, and giving blood does make me feel like I do at least one good basically selfless thing every now and then. We had hoped that David and Andrew were going to join us, but David had an emergency, and Andy was sick. Oh well, maybe next time...


02/20/01

Happy New Year!

Wow, it's been a while...

Well, let's see...

We had a very nice Christmas. Robby and family came over Christmas eve, and along with my Mom, we had a nice dinner. Robby and family spent the night. It was fun to have Christmas day with small children around.

Jeanie's parents came to visit the day after Christmas. It was really nice to have them around for a few days.

I spent a week in Armonk, NY early in January at the IBM Basic Blue for Managers Learning Lab. This was the in-class portion of the class that I have been working on via "e-Learning" for the previous six months. The class was really good. I met a lot of interesting people,and learned a bunch. I thought the facility was wonderful. Lodging was in a college dorm setting, although each room did have its own bathroom. Rooms were nice, and there were common areas with pool and ping pong tables. Each room had a token ring port, and there were network printers in the common areas. Food was buffet style, three meals a day, and delicious. There was about two feet of snow on the ground, so it was really pretty. The mid-Hudson valley in New York really is a beautiful part of the world.

Jim and Kim came up for my birthday. We had a blast. They brought a new card game, Phase 10. Jeanie kicked butt both nights.

I got lots of cool presents for my birthday, including a new surround sound receiver and speakers, and a DVD player. I'm glad Bob and I pre-wired for the speakers. The system sounds really good.

We've seen a couple of movies. Our favorites have been "What Women Think" with Mel Gibson which was hilarious, and "Miss Congeniality" with Sandra Bullock which was very cute.

We saw our first play of the new season - "Les Miserables." It was a wonderful production, although I prefer lighter content...

I had "the crud" week before last. Yuck! I'm still not 100%, but I'm getting there.

Burnie, Dave, Mike, Roxanne, Jeanie and I went to Ruth's Chris to celebrate Burnie coming to IBM. It was a lovely dinner. Food was great, company was even better.

Jeanie is fine, kids are fine, Diego is fine, Peanut is fine, Mr. Bubbles is fine, Aristotle and Socrates are fine. Life is good.



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